Idealized Relationships

Happy Valentine’s Day. February 14 is Valentine’s Day. People focus a lot on the relationships that they have or think they SHOULD have or worry that they don’t have at this time of year.

What is it that we make so important about having a “special relationship”?

What have you made so vital, valuable and real about your fantasy, idealized version of relationship or society’s idealized relationship that keeps you from having a relationship that would actually be a contribution to you? Everything that is will you now destroy and uncreate it all? Right and Wrong, Good and Bad, POD, POC, All 9, Shorts, Boys, and Beyonds®.

How many algorithmic tonalities and algorithmic anomalies are you using to prevent your relationship from ever changing that ensures that the rest of your life can’t change either? Everything that is, times a godzillion, will you destroy and uncreate it all? Right and Wrong, Good and Bad, POD, POC, All 9, Shorts, Boys, and Beyonds®.

Remember to destroy and uncreate your relationships every day so you clear out all of the expectations and projections and everything else you have piled onto it so you start with a clean slate each day.

Will you destroy and uncreate your relationship with/to _____? Right and Wrong, Good and Bad, POD, POC, All 9, Shorts, Boys, and Beyonds®.

Using “I” instead of “YOU”

What have I made so vital, valuable and real about my fantasy, idealized version of relationship or society’s idealized relationship that keeps me from having a relationship that would actually be a contribution to me? Everything that is I now destroy and uncreate it all. Right and Wrong, Good and Bad, POD, POC, All 9, Shorts, Boys, and Beyonds®.

How many algorithmic tonalities and algorithmic anomalies am I using to prevent my relationship from ever changing that ensures that the rest of my life can’t change either? Everything that is, times a godzillion, I destroy and uncreate it all. Right and Wrong, Good and Bad, POD, POC, All 9, Shorts, Boys, and Beyonds®.

Remember to destroy and uncreate my relationships every day so I clear out all of the expectations and projections and everything else you have piled onto it so you start with a clean slate each day.

I destroy and uncreate your relationship with/to _____? Right and Wrong, Good and Bad, POD, POC, All 9, Shorts, Boys, and Beyonds®.