Your task is not to seek for love, but merely to seek and find all the barriers within yourself that you have built against it .
– Maulana Jalaluddin Rumi
It may be hard to believe, but you really do put up barriers to love and many other things in life that you say that you want to have.
Whoa! You create barriers and blocks to prevent yourself from receiving love, money, happiness and so much more? From having a relationship? From being creative?
Did you realize that? Maybe, maybe not.
You might not realize just how active a part you play in preventing yourself from having what you say you desire.
You see, you prevent yourself from having things for various reasons:
- You don’t believe you deserve it
- You feel guilty about having something for yourself, so you don’t go for it.
- You punish yourself for choosing what you believe you shouldn’t choose. Or you don’t choose it at all so you don’t have to punish yourself.
- You believe you will fail in trying to get it so you do fail.
- Other people tell you that you can’t have it, so you create barriers to validate their beliefs
- You’ve failed at it before and can’t believe you will ever have it
- And many more
How do you release those barriers and blocks?
One good way to start is to ask questions like:
- What blocks and barriers am I creating here?
- Do I believe I can have this (or create this or get there)?
- What different things must I do to get to what I desire?
- What other choices do I have here?
- What am I capable of creating that I have never thought I could?
Questions are invitations to change. Questions tell the universe you are open to something new!
Ask a question and see what new things show up!
Then give yourself permission to choose what you desire!
You deserve it!
It’s OK.
You deserve to be happy.
It’s your choice.
Allow yourself to choose the life and the “YOU” that you desire to have and be!
Choose for you.
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