The Need For Why

One of the things I talked about in my blog this week is the need that we seem to have to know the “Why” of what we do or of what occurs.

We believe that if we know why something happened or why we did something that it will change it or keep it from happening again or whatever. So we hang onto events until we have what we consider to be a “satisfactory why”.

Now, note that I said a “satisfactory why”. It might not be the real why, but it’s one that is acceptable to you. So you just keep hanging on until you get something that is acceptable or maybe even unacceptable because the unacceptable is even easier to blame.

Let me ask you, does all that hanging onto something actually change your circumstances or make it any better for you?

I believe that choosing something different would change your life much more and can be done without all the agonizing over what the actual “why” really is.                                                                       

Everywhere you are hanging onto and holding onto events and other things until you can figure out why you chose them or did them or why they happened, will you destroy and uncreate it all, times a godzillion? Right and Wrong, Good and Bad, POD, POC, All 9, Shorts, Boys, POVADS, and Beyonds™.

All of the Big 5 making you believe that knowing the “why” of things is the only way you can move beyond them, will you destroy, and uncreate all that times a godzillion? Right and Wrong, Good and Bad, POD, POC, All 9, Shorts, Boys, POVADS, and Beyonds™.

Using “I” instead of “YOU”

Everywhere I am hanging onto and holding onto events and other things until I can figure out why I chose them or did them or why they happened, I destroy and uncreate it all, times a godzillion. Right and Wrong, Good and Bad, POD, POC, All 9, Shorts, Boys, POVADS, and Beyonds™.

All of the Big 5 making me believe that knowing the “why” of things is the only way I can move beyond them, I now destroy, and uncreate all that times a godzillion. Right and Wrong, Good and Bad, POD, POC, All 9, Shorts, Boys, POVADS, and Beyonds™.