Do You Need a Perfect Relationship?

It’s almost Valentine’s Day again. Are you beating yourself up for not having the relationship of your dreams? So often we do that. We judge ourselves as being wrong, bad, worthless and pathetic because we don’t have that fantasy relationship that we see on TV. Does anyone have that? It is real? Would it actually make you happy?

I don’t have the answer to those questions.

My belief is that there are no “perfect” relationships.

My other belief is that you have to have a good relationship with yourself before you can have one with someone else. I know that I spent years getting to like and love myself again after my divorce before someone came into my life again. I had to let go of all that blame, regret, anger, etc I had about me before I could truly love someone again.

So, stop beating yourself up and ask what you can do to create the relationship that works for and contributes to you.

Where have you judged yourself as wrong, bad, worthless and pathetic because you don’t have the fantasy relationship that you read about or see on TV? Everything that is will you destroy and uncreate it all? Right and Wrong, Good and Bad, POD, POC, All 9, Shorts, Boys and Beyonds®.

What have you made so valuable, vital and real about having the relationship of your fantasies? Everything that is will you destroy and uncreate it all? Right and Wrong, Good and Bad, POD, POC, All 9, Shorts, Boys and Beyonds®.

Using “I” instead of “YOU”

Where have I judged myself as wrong, bad, worthless and pathetic because I don’t have the fantasy relationship that I read about or see on TV? Everything that is I destroy and uncreate it all. Right and Wrong, Good and Bad, POD, POC, All 9, Shorts, Boys and Beyonds®.

What have I made so valuable, vital and real about having the relationship of my fantasies? Everything that is I destroy and uncreate it all. Right and Wrong, Good and Bad, POD, POC, All 9, Shorts, Boys and Beyonds®.