You Can’t Fix Other People

When you are helping or attempting to help others and they don’t change or get better or have the results you desire, are you wrong?

As I have been teaching and talking with people about doing healing and coaching with others, I have noticed the tendency for people to take on the responsibility for the, let’s call them clients,  to get better.

Then when that client doesn’t get better, the person often makes themselves wrong or deficient in some way as a healer/coach.

That just isn’t usually the case. You see, when a client does not change or changes less than the desired amount, it is generally the client’s choice.

You, the healer or coach, are not wrong as long as you are operating in the best interest of the client.

Really. You can’t fix people. They must fix themselves.  You can assist, aid and support them, but ultimately they must choose to change and to heal.

So you can now remove the weight of the world from your shoulders.

Just keep working in the best interest of your client and do the best that you can to invite them to change and heal. You’re making a difference, one person at a time.


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