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Make this your best holiday season yet

Day 12 : What And Who Do You Have To Be?

It’s day 12 already!!

What shifts and changes have you noticed in how the holidays are showing up for you this year?

How about how you are showing up in and with the holidays?

Have you created more ease, joy, happiness and fun?

Are things less stressful?

Keep using the tools as you finish out the year and note what shows up.

Are you feeling resistance to having fun and enjoying the holidays?

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Who and what do you have to be to change all that and have the best, most enjoyable holiday you have had so far? Everything that doesn’t allow that to show up will you now destroy and uncreate it all? Right and Wrong, Good and Bad, POD, POC, All 9, Shorts, Boys, and Beyonds®.

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What would it take to create the most fun you have had with the holidays starting right now? Everything that doesn’t allow that to show up will you now destroy and uncreate it all? Right and Wrong, Good and Bad, POD, POC, All 9, Shorts, Boys, and Beyonds®.

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It’s a great day to create happiness, joy, fun and ease with the holidays!

Day 11 : Lies

Lies are things you tell yourself and things you buy from others.

If you live from lies, you cannot receive.

When you are buying into the lies of others you make yourself wrong, and deny yourself so much of what you could be choosing.

Whose lies, what lies and how many lies have you bought about the stress and frustration that the holidays bring? Everything that is will you now destroy and uncreate it all? Right and Wrong, Good and Bad, POD, POC, All 9, Shorts, Boys, and Beyonds®.

How many lies and inventions are you using to avoid the happy, fun, joyous holidays you could be choosing? Everything that is will you now destroy and uncreate it all? Right and Wrong, Good and Bad, POD, POC, All 9, Shorts, Boys, and Beyonds®.

It’s time to stop buying the lies that tell you that you can’t have what you desire and start creating what you would like your life to be!

Day 10 : What Would It Take?

Have you asked the universe for what you would like to have for the holidays?

It’s sort of like asking Santa for what you want. You state your ASK and then ask what it would take to get there, create that, have that.

Universe, my ASK is for _____. What would it take to have that? Anything that doesn’t allow that to show up I destroy and uncreate it all. Right and Wrong, Good and Bad, POD, POC, All 9, Shorts, Boys, and Beyonds®.

What Would It Take to have the most fun I have had yet at the holidays? Anything that doesn’t allow that to show up I destroy and uncreate it all. Right and Wrong, Good and Bad, POD, POC, All 9, Shorts, Boys, and Beyonds®.

Ask the universe for what you desire!

Day 9 : What Orders Have You Given?

What orders are you giving your body and your life?

Orders?

Yes, orders. When you say things like “I’m sick and tired of ____” you are giving orders to you and to your body to be sick and tired. Is that what you truly desire to have?

So what orders are you giving about the holidays?

Are you telling yourself that shopping will be a hassle? That traffic will be an absolute mess? That gatherings will be tiresome and difficult?

Perhaps it is time to change your language.

What orders are you giving that keep you stuck in holiday situations you don’t want to have? Everything that is will you now destroy and uncreate it all? Right and Wrong, Good and Bad, POD, POC, All 9, Shorts, Boys, and Beyonds®.

All the orders you have given that are creating the holidays of your nightmares will you now destroy and uncreate it all? Right and Wrong, Good and Bad, POD, POC, All 9, Shorts, Boys, and Beyonds®.

What would it take to allow yourself to create the holidays of your dreams, filled with fun, laughter, and joy?

Day 8 : Ask More Questions

When things are not going as you would like, you start to ask why and begin looking for answers. The thing about answers is that they never take you beyond what you already know.

So the next time you have this going on, instead of coming to a conclusion about what’s going on or about what needs to happen to change it or about WHY it is here, ask “What else is possible® here?”

When you ask questions you move beyond every habit, every thought, every conclusion you currently have and into the space of new possibilities. You invite something different to show up. You invite the universe to show you something different.

What questions have you not asked that if you would ask them would change how the holidays show up for you? Everything that is will you now destroy and uncreate it all? Right and Wrong, Good and Bad, POD, POC, All 9, Shorts, Boys, and Beyonds®.

What questions could you ask that you have you avoided asking that if you would ask them would create more joy, fun and happiness for you? Everything that is will you now destroy and uncreate it all? Right and Wrong, Good and Bad, POD, POC, All 9, Shorts, Boys, and Beyonds®.

Ask more questions.

Day 7 : Be the Invitation

Are you being the invitation to joy, happiness and fun for the holidays?

Sometimes you uninvited things when you don’t believe they are possible. So you end up creating an environment in which those things don’t or can’t show up. You continue as if they will never be there and basically crowd them out of your life. Is that what you truly desire to create?

Where have you uninvited joy, happiness and fun for the holidays? Everything that is will you now destroy and uncreate it all? Right and Wrong, Good and Bad, POD, POC, All 9, Shorts, Boys, and Beyonds®.

What if you could invite more joy, more fun, less stress, more happiness and more ease with the holidays to show up? Whatever limits or prevents that, will you now destroy and uncreate it all? Right and Wrong, Good and Bad, POD, POC, All 9, Shorts, Boys, and Beyonds®.

Invite joy, happiness and fun for the holidays!

Day 6 : Possibilities

Asking questions to gain an awareness rather than an answer, opens the door to more possibilities.

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Possibilities create all the different choices that you have available, things you could choose, whether you do or not.

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When you ask for more possibilities to show up, you get more choices! Pretty cool huh?

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What possibilities exist for the best holidays yet do you have that you have never considered possible? Everything that is will you now destroy and uncreate it all? Right and Wrong, Good and Bad, POD, POC, All 9, Shorts, Boys, and Beyonds®.

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What have you made so vital about limitation that keeps you creating that instead of possibilities? Everything that is times a godzillion, will you now destroy and uncreate it all? Right and Wrong, Good and Bad, POD, POC, All 9, Shorts, Boys, and Beyonds®.

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Open the doors to more possibilities for joy and happiness this holiday season!!

Day 5 : Judgment

​People do all sorts of celebrations and traditions at the holidays. And often they believe that everyone else should do the SAME celebrations or they are wrong.

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Do you have that point of view? Are you judging other people’s celebrations and traditions as wrong or lacking because they don’t match yours?

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If you aren’t, great. If you are, what is that creating in your life? Judgment creates limitations. So what limitations are you creating by judging others?

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Or perhaps you are judging yourself for NOT having all of the celebrations that others have told you that you require in order to have a happy holiday!

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How much does THAT make you wrong?

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What if you could simply allow everyone, including yourself, create the celebrations and traditions of the holidays that make them happy? How much more ease, fun, happiness and joy would that create?

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Everywhere you are judging yourself and others for their chosen celebrations and traditions of the holidays will you now destroy and uncreate it all? Right and Wrong, Good and Bad, POD, POC, All 9, Shorts, Boys, and Beyonds®.

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Everywhere you are making yourself wrong for not having the celebrations that others have told you that you require in order to have a happy holiday will you now destroy and uncreate it all? Right and Wrong, Good and Bad, POD, POC, All 9, Shorts, Boys, and Beyonds®.

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Allow yourself and others to have a happy holiday!

Day 4 : Projected Futures

Projected futures are basically an extension of Projections and Expectations from Day 2.

What you do it you decide what your future is going to be based on your past and on what’s going on around you and on your limitations and conclusions about what you have available to you.

Then, what happens is you can't see anything beyond it or greater than that because when you make that projection into the future that's what you decide the future is going to be and it stops you from creating the future you actually have the capacity to create. Ta-Da!!

All the projected futures you have created that are limiting your present and limiting your future that came from your past and came from a past that you don't even have any more will you destroy and uncreate it all? Right and Wrong, Good and Bad, POD, POC, All 9, Shorts, Boys, and Beyonds®.

All the projected future of difficulties, stress, hustle and bustle, trauma and drama at the holidays that you have created based on your past that ensures you will have a variation of the past rather than a completely different future, will you destroy and uncreate all that?  Right and Wrong, Good and Bad, POD, POC, All 9, Shorts, Boys, and Beyonds®.

Allow yourself to create a different kind of holiday this year, filled with ease, joy, happiness, and fun!

Day 3 : Ease With The Holidays

Will you actually allow yourself to have Ease with the holidays?

That may sound like a silly question. Of course you will, who wouldn’t, right?

However, sometimes we have convinced ourselves that the holidays will be difficult or unpleasant, and then we fulfill that prediction by making ourselves unaware so we can be right about it being difficult.

We call that Stupidity.

In order to make yourself unaware, you have to create yourself as stupid. It can apply to any area of your life. You marginally function in this reality instead of going, “How could I create or generate something different?” You make yourself stupid enough to believe that you’re right or that you’re wrong, neither of which gives you choice, possibility, question, or contribution.

So, ready to dump the stupidity?

What stupidity are you using to create the total lack of ease, joy, happiness and fun with and as the holidays you are choosing? Everything that is will you now destroy and uncreate it all? Right and Wrong, Good and Bad, POD, POC, All 9, Shorts, Boys, and Beyonds®.

What stupidity are you using to ensure that your prediction about holiday difficulties comes true are you choosing? Everything that is will you now destroy and uncreate it all? Right and Wrong, Good and Bad, POD, POC, All 9, Shorts, Boys, and Beyonds®.

Allow yourself the gift of holiday ease, joy, happiness and fun!​

Day 2 : Projections and Expectations

From the time we were little kids we were taught that in order to create the future we had to project and expect what the future is going to be.

What that tends to create is a system for judging us for not creating what it is we would like to be able to create. Strange, huh?

So what happens is, when you have a projection or expectation of someone, if they don't do exactly what you think they're supposed to, in exactly the way you think they're supposed to - you go into judgment of them for not being exactly the way you thought they should be.

"People spend their whole lives using projections, expectations, judgments, separations and rejections to filter everything you say. You don't get awareness from what people say. You get awareness from what they do." - Gary Douglas

All the projections, expectations, judgments, calculations, conclusions decisions, separations and rejections that you have about what the holidays should be, should not be, have always been, have never been, must be, must not be, and all of that that keeps you from creating the holidays the way you could create them and would like to create them will you now destroy and uncreate them all? Right and Wrong, Good and Bad, POD, POC, All 9, Shorts, Boys and Beyonds®.

All the projections, expectations, judgments, calculations, conclusions decisions, separations and rejections about what the holidays that you have picked up from others and tried to make real and true for you when they aren’t, will you now destroy and uncreate them all and return to sender with consciousness attached? Right and Wrong, Good and Bad, POD, POC, All 9, Shorts, Boys and Beyonds®.

Day 1: Definitions

Gary Douglas says, "definition by definition alone is a limitation"

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And yet we live in a world where we define everything and everyone.

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We label them and define them and limit them AND ourselves.

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So how much are you defining and limiting yourself and everyone else at the holidays?

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What definitions are you using to create the limitations of the holidays, and yourself and everyone else at the holidays you are choosing? Everything that is will you destroy and uncreate it all? Right and Wrong, Good and Bad, POD, POC, All 9, Shorts, Boys and Beyonds®.

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How many Definitions of what the holidays must be, must not be, should be, should not be, etc do you have that keep you from having joy and fun at the holidays? Everything that is will you destroy and uncreate it all? Right and Wrong, Good and Bad, POD, POC, All 9, Shorts, Boys and Beyonds®.